Jan Mabie reflects on her Air Force experience during Reagan's witch-hunt against gays in the military. Beth Syverson talks about her and Jan's marriage and the effort required to make it happen. Although we take joy in the fact that Unitarian Universalists are very accepting of LGBTQ people, and we are grateful that OCUUC is a Welcoming Congregation, we believe that hearing each others' stories enriches all of us and helps us be more compassionate toward others who are different from us.